Nouva Daze

I enjoy spending time with myself. Something I’ve realized, is the times we spend by ourselves are precious. We spend time with ourselves all the time, but do we really spend time with ourselves?

I’m learning to find things that I enjoy doing with other people and also do them by myself. . Doing these things with just me has helped built my confidence, my dependability on others to have fun, etc. It’s allowed me to do more stuff I felt uncomfortable doing alone. It’s teaches you to not cling onto others when you need to feel joy or cheering up.

Being alone doesn’t always have to mean you are lonely. There are simple things you can find to do not only outside, but in your home to not feel lonely. Simple things such as sitting down reading a book or binge watching one of your favorite shows, or cooking with the speakers on and having mini dance parties is overlooked.

In my opinion I feel as humans we hate judgement from others but never scold ourselves for judging ourselves. You should never feel guilty about wanting to put yourself first. It is important to remember that to be selfless sometimes we have to be selfish. I always go by my favorite quote:

Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time

The more time you spend with yourself you become more comfortable with being with yourself.